Do you ever wonder what is holding you back? Do you ever wonder what is stopping you from having all the clients, all the money, and all the transactions that you desire?

Chances are that you have all the skills and knowledge you need.

Have you ever said to yourself, “I know what I should be doing, I’m just not doing it.”?

That is a clear signal that you are being undermined by self limiting beliefs that may not even be conscious, such as:

• “I’m not worthy of success”,
• “It’s selfish to pray for money”,
• “Rich people are dishonest”,
• “I should just be happy with what I have and not want more”,
• “I am a failure and not worthy of money.”

Let me give you an example from a client of mine:

Although his efforts to be successful were sincere, he had unknowingly been carrying around “anti-success” beliefs his whole life, such as:

• “I don’t have what it takes”
• “I can’t be successful like others”
• “I have to settle for less”
• “I have to struggle and sacrifice to make money”
• “I’m not worthy of having money”

In our weekly sessions, it became clear that the origins of these self limiting beliefs went back quite a ways. A real breakthrough for him came during one of our sessions, when he recalled that as a child he tried extremely hard to get his parents approval.

Because his parents were not forthcoming with their approval, he concluded subconsciously that he was a “failure”, and that he did not deserve success.

This resulted in him never achieving the level of success he wanted, not getting the transactions that he deserved, and beating himself up continually with self “put downs”.

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